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    • Name: Samanthaa
    • Birthday: 7/31/1989
    • Gender: Female
    • Member Since: 11/5/2008

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Friday, 16 January 2009

  • I'm A Bette .. ?

    You Are a Bette!

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    You are a Bette -- "I must be strong"

    Bettes are direct, self-reliant, self-confident, and protective.

     

    How to Get Along with Me
    • * Stand up for yourself... and me.   
    • * Be confident, strong, and direct.   
    • * Don't gossip about me or betray my trust.    
    • * Be vulnerable and share your feelings. See and acknowledge my tender, vulnerable side.   
    • * Give me space to be alone.   
    • * Acknowledge the contributions I make, but don't flatter me.   
    • * I often speak in an assertive way. Don't automatically assume it's a personal attack.   
    • * When I scream, curse, and stomp around, try to remember that's just the way I am.

     

     

    What I Like About Being a Bette   
    • * being independent and self-reliant   
    • * being able to take charge and meet challenges head on   
    • * being courageous, straightforward, and honest   
    • * getting all the enjoyment I can out of life   
    • * supporting, empowering, and protecting those close to me   
    • * upholding just causes

     

     

    What's Hard About Being a Bette   
    • * overwhelming people with my bluntness; scaring them away when I don't intend to   
    • * being restless and impatient with others' incompetence   
    • * sticking my neck out for people and receiving no appreciation for it   
    • * never forgetting injuries or injustices   
    • * putting too much pressure on myself   
    • * getting high blood pressure when people don't obey the rules or when things don't go right

     

     

    Bettes as Children Often   
    • * are independent; have an inner strength and a fighting spirit   
    • * are sometimes loners   
    • * seize control so they won't be controlled   
    • * figure out others' weaknesses   
    • * attack verbally or physically when provoked   
    • * take charge in the family because they perceive themselves as the strongest, or grow up in difficult or abusive surroundings

     

     

    Bettes as Parents   
    • * are often loyal, caring, involved, and devoted   
    • * are sometimes overprotective   
    • * can be demanding, controlling, and rigid

Thursday, 15 January 2009

  • Who Says The Health Care System Is Doing The Right Thing?

       I'm sure everyone has noticed how hard the Health Care System is trying to make everyone quit smoking. That nasty little habbit thats been around for as long as everyone remembers. They make all convience stores block view of the packs on the shelves. They make laws such as not being able to smoke within 10 meters of a public entrance and, the lastest law, your not aloud to smoke in your vehicle if your accomanied by your children under the age of 16. They put disgusting warning labels on all packs of cigarettes. I can go on and on. The reasoning behind all of this is to prevent health problems for themselves and others. Basically everyone. But are they really trying to help?

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    If your a smoker or someone who's quit, you should know how hard it is to give up this habbit that we rely on to get us by day to day. It's definitly one of the hardest thing anyone can do. But, now they have medication, gum, patches, etc to help. BUT -- there is one condition to that. Is the Healt Care System trying to help the wrong age group? I have a little story i want to share..  It's the best way i can stress this matter that i am EXTREMELY upest, angry, basically in disbeleif about.

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    First, i would like to give a breif discription of how smoking has impacted my life.

    My name's Samanthaa. I started smoking when i was 11. I was outside with my cousin and a few friends. Our friends were smoking and asked us if we wanted a 'drag'. I said no, but my cousin really wanted to. I told her that i wouldn't say anything but she insisted that i should do it. I repeated myself about 20 times - no -  But then she said that if i didn't she would tell my mom that i was smoking and she wasn't. So, of coarse being 11 .. i believed she would. As much as people like to say, "all you have to say is no". At a young age .. saying no to your friends is basically almost as hard as quitting. Anyways, that's all it took. One drag, One threat, and One Cigarette. I'm now 18 and i'm still hooked. I've tried to quit plenty of times. But it just didn't happen. (I give props to those cold turkey people out there!) Which leads me to my story ..  When i was 17, my mother and I were driving around, doing arrunds, and i heard something on the radio. It was the local health unit stateing that they were trying to help people quit smoking. They would give you, for free, the patch and settions to talk to someone about how everythings working. So, i went to the health unit and they brought me into the room. Before they asked me anything, they got me to breath into a pipe thing to see how strong my lungs were. Obviously, after smoking for 6 years, they weren't very strong. They informed me that if i didn't quit smoking i would be breathing through an oxygen tank by the time i was 30. Then they asked me my age. I told them i was 17 and this was the responce i got.. "Oh .. well, i'm sorry but we can't give you this treatment. We can only offer it to people of age. Which is 19. Sorry".  I was SHOCKED! Literally, no joke, i freaked. How could the Health Care System, which is trying to 'help' people quit smoking, refuse to help?!

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    Which is when i realized that they don't understand how many young people are actually smoking these days. Over 65% of the smoking population is under the age of 19. Do they understand that they still have their future? They have a better chance of quitting with help? Just because we're underage doesn't mean we don't want or need help. It doesn't mean that we're not addicted. I mean, just because there's a legal drinking age .. doesn't mean that younger aged people aren't drinking. You know, it's like denying someone to rehab?! I honestly do not understand how people can say their trying to HELP when the turn people down? I just want someone to explain this to me.. Because quite frankly .. i'm pretty disappointed. 

     

  • hey guys : ).  this is just a little poem i wrote ..

    my mom was complaining to me that i should care what people think, so this is dedicated to her. lol

    theBEST *

    the things they say

    the things you hear

    it's like being the pray

    of your greatest fear

    you feel trapped

    with no way out

    like your being wrapped

    in a string of doubt

    they'll kick you down

    and beat you hard

    don't be their clown

    'cause they'll leave you scared

    you gota get up

    and stand you ground

    like you won the stanley cup

    you gota stand it proud

    fuck what they say

    fuck what you hear

    it doesn't matter anyway

    don't be a bird

    and mock the rest

    just be yourself

    'cause thats theBEST  : )

    self-esteem

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